

Reflections Of Self
We Are All Mirrors For Each Other
When we look at other people, we see many of their qualities in innumerable and seemingly random combinations. However, the qualities that we see in the people around us are directly related to the traits that exist in us. "Like attracts like" is one of the spiritual laws of the universe. We attract individuals into our lives that mirror who we are. Those you feel drawn to reflect your inner self back at you, and you act as a mirror for them. Simply put, when you look at others, you will likely see what exists in you. When you see beauty, divinity, sweetness, or light in the soul of another, you are seeing the goodness that resides in your soul. When you see traits in others that evoke feelings of anger, annoyance, or hatred, you may be seeing reflected back at you those parts of yourself that you have disowned or do not like.
Because we are all mirrors for each other, looking at the people in your life can tell you a lot about yourself. Who you are can be laid bare to you through what you see in others. It is easy to see the traits you do not like in others. It is much more difficult to realize that you possess those same traits. Often, the habits, attitudes, and behaviors of others are closely linked to our unconscious and unresolved issues.
When you come into contact with someone you admire, search your soul for similarly admirable traits. Likewise, when you meet someone exhibiting traits that you dislike, accept that you are looking at your reflection. Looking at yourself through your perception of others can be a humbling and eye-opening experience. You can also cultivate in you the traits and behaviors that you do like. Be loving and respectful to all people, and you will attract individuals that will love and respect you back. Nurture compassion and empathy and let the goodness you see in others be your mirror.
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Moving On
So you can understand why every time Lynch unpacked a box in his new home in
"Every time I cracked open another box, I was like, 'That son of a ... ,' " Lynch said. "Once I got past the move, I was OK."
A little bitter? Sure, mostly because of the manner in which Allen cut Lynch in 2004 after 11 seasons with the Bucs, a time that included five Pro Bowls and a Super Bowl championship.
These days, he no longer curses Allen. That bitterness has subsided.
Playing on a legitimate Super Bowl-contending team has helped. So has irony.
If Lynch was still with
For one, he wouldn't be playing in his third championship game. While his former Bucs teammates are home watching today's championship games on television, Lynch is an active participant as the Broncos' starting free safety and is a game away from his second Super Bowl.
"Sure it was a tough situation leaving
Secondly, if Lynch were still an integral part of the vaunted
A funny thing happened to Lynch after the Bucs decided he wasn't starting material. He turned into a hybrid safety/nickel cornerback. Lynch tied for the Broncos' lead this season with four sacks. That's nearly the amount he collected in 11 seasons with the Bucs (six).
"John, he knows everything, he studies the game very hard and he'll knock you out,"
Early in his career, Lynch earned the reputation as one of the hardest hitters in the league. He still packs a wallop, but in the Broncos' scheme, Lynch has developed into one of the league's most feared blitzers.
"In
"It's really stepped up a lot this year, and I'm having a lot of fun doing it."
In the Broncos' 27-13 victory against the two-time defending world champion Patriots, Lynch never sacked
"In this defense right now, they're asking me to do a little bit of everything," he said. "Not only am I blitzing, in my 13th year, it's kind of ironic they're asking me to cover receivers more than I've ever done in my career. Sometimes I get to play with two deep safeties, like I did in Tampa, but sometimes I'm playing center field, sometimes I'm playing linebacker, sometimes I get down in a three-point stance like a defensive lineman.
"They're asking a lot of me, but I enjoy that."
Lynch also enjoys this
"There's something special about this team, and I recognized it early," Lynch said. "It's really a selfless team. No one really cares who gets the credit, and it's a real tight team."
Because he has gone through the championship experience with
"It's very similar," he said. "We were a very tight team there, but this one is a little tighter. Just because, I think, even in the best times in
"And we don't have a coach-general manager battle going on. So it's really good and fun to be around. My time in
Lynch keeps in touch with his former teammates. He communicates regularly with Derrick Brooks, Barber and Mike Alstott. He even stopped by
That's about as much of a blast from the past as Lynch allows. His present and future are with the Denver Broncos.
"There's times when I'm talking to Derrick, Ronde and Mike, and it feels like just yesterday I was there," Lynch said. "But there are other times, it feels like light years ago that I was playing with that team. I'll never forget how special the memories were in
"But I'm a big believer that things happen for a reason and they all work out. I can tell you I'm having as much fun as I've ever had."